Before Dolly Parton died, her nephew was virtually unknown to the public, a bodyguard in a suit jacket and sunglasses who would usher the country music superstar past throngs of adoring fans and paparazzi.

Then, in August, the nephew, Bryan Seaver, appeared on his aunt’s social media accounts to announce her death. Within weeks, Seaver became the main character in a bitter legal battle against Parton’s longtime manager, Danny Nozell.

Nozell is the driving force behind a lawsuit that accuses Seaver of waging an “escalating campaign of threats” to extract money from his aunt’s estate. Seaver, now temporarily banned from Parton properties by a restraining order, has vehemently denied threatening or intimidating anyone and accused Nozell of distorting innocuous interactions to discredit him.

The fight will soon move into open court in Nashville, Tennessee, where a judge will consider whether to extend the ban.

Nozell has cited excerpts from text messages and emails from Seaver, who has described himself as an “international arms dealer and mercenary,” as reason for concern.

The dispute has betrayed a fracturing in Parton’s inner circle, now tasked with managing her legacy.

In her six-decade career, Parton closely guarded her affairs and rarely allowed scandal to touch her, tending carefully to a rhinestone-clad brand and building an ever-expanding business empire.

“She would be so very, very distressed about what is going on right now in the press,” said Martha Ackmann, who wrote a biography of Parton. “She was the one who kept things on the straight and narrow.”

Now the private remarks of Seaver, the child of Parton’s sister Cassie, are being picked apart in court.

In text messages and emails that were filed publicly, Seaver called an executive who operates Dollywood, his aunt’s theme park in Tennessee, a “worthless skinny fat nerd.” He threatened to start a podcast dedicated to airing grievances and “ruining Dolly’s brand partnerships.” He declared that he would “spend the next time I have on earth ratfucking anyone that has ever betrayed my family.”

“All I do is warfare,” Seaver texted to Nozell shortly before Parton’s death, amid an exchange about media strategy.

Excerpts from the messages were part of the lawsuit filed last month by a corporation that is led by Nozell and responsible for managing Parton’s business interests after her death — named She’s Alive, LLC.

Chancellor I’Ashea L. Myles, the judge overseeing the case, granted a temporary restraining order against Seaver last month, barring him from entering the company’s properties or coming within 1,000 feet of its employees.

Seaver, who is CEO of a security company, was fired from his position overseeing security for some of Parton’s properties.

His status as a beneficiary of Parton’s estate has not been challenged.

Parton left a substantial business empire, including Dollywood, in Pigeon Forge, Tennessee; the SongTeller Hotel in Nashville, with a museum dedicated to her life; and an array of brands that include makeup, baking mixes, coffee and pet apparel.

The current dispute has laid bare some of the tensions that arose from mixing family and business.

After chronicling her family’s impoverished upbringing in the Appalachian Mountains through her music, Parton took care to bring her family into her orbit of stardom. Part of her motivation behind Dollywood was to hire her family, friends and members of her broader community.

The question in front of Myles at a hearing in the case set for Nov. 3 will be whether Seaver’s remarks could reasonably be seen as threats, or whether they amount to missives between friends that were taken out of context.

Seaver and his lawyers have acknowledged in court papers that he sent messages that were “profane,” “inappropriate” and “rude.” But they said that most were sent to Nozell — then considered a close friend — in the difficult days surrounding Parton’s death and did not amount to real threats.

Lawyers for Nozell said Seaver made threatening comments that went beyond the private text messages.

In court papers, they say that Parton’s trust and estates lawyer quit in the face of threats — an account that Seaver disputes. Responding to allegations that he was trying to “extort” Parton’s businesses, Seaver said that his demands for money were tied to more than $250,000 in delayed payments to his company for security work.

Lawyers for Seaver and She’s Alive, the corporation led by Nozell that is responsible for Parton’s business endeavors, did not respond to requests for comment.

Other members of Parton’s family have largely remained quiet on the legal fight. Her sister Freida assured fans in a social media post that “there is no feud within our family” and “we all love Bryan, just as we all love each other.”

In a 2024 letter that Seaver filed in court last week, Parton requested that the staff members overseeing her developing Nashville hotel consider hiring Seaver’s company as security, saying its employees were “very professional, very discreet and very good at what they do.”

The company, Herschend, which helps manage Dollywood and the SongTeller Hotel, did not hire Seaver’s company. That appeared to contribute to a series of emails from Seaver to one of Herschend’s executives in which he complained about what he said was mismanagement and poor behavior by the security guards at the hotel.

In private messages to Nozell in August, Seaver vented about Herschend, vowing to “destroy the entire brand” unless the company’s influence was curtailed.

The company did not respond to multiple requests for comment.

Seaver has pointed the judge to Nozell’s responses to his messages as evidence that his comments weren’t being viewed as legitimate threats of violence or unlawful business interference.

As the two men were discussing Seaver’s increased exposure as a family spokesperson, Seaver claimed that he had “just sold $29 million worth of ammo to Haiti” and was “literally an international arms dealer and mercenary.”

Nozell reacted to the message with a heart emoji. After Seaver said “all I do is warfare,” Nozell reacted with a “ha ha.”

“No one acted as though a serious threat had been made, and nothing violent ever followed,” Seaver’s lawyers wrote in court papers.

Seaver said in a sworn affidavit that the day before he was fired, he and Nozell — along with Parton’s publicist — were discussing media opportunities for him, including the potential for booking him as a guest on a long-form podcast such as “The Joe Rogan Experience.”

Lawyers for Nozell and his corporation have said that Seaver had become “emboldened” and that there were real concerns that he would use a public platform to follow through on his threat to undermine Parton’s brand. They said She’s Alive hired private security for its personnel because they felt threatened.

Seaver wrote in the affidavit that he had stopped responding directly to anyone from the media about the case, speaking only through his lawyers.

“I care about Ms. Parton, her music, her legacy, and her family,” Seaver said in the affidavit. “I do not want this dispute to harm her legacy.”

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This article originally appeared in The New York Times.

By Julia Jacobs and Emily Cochrane/Mike Belleme
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